We all want someone to look at us. From the 4 year old who cries out, "Mommy, look! look! Look what I can do!", to the young lady with the enormous fake long eye-lashes, to the gym rat with bulging biceps who wears a tank-top in the middle of winter, to the guy in the lifted truck with huge tires, we all desire the same thing. We need someone to tell us we are good.